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A field of budding flowers

Real tools for the relationships that shape a life, community, and ecosystem.

Dr. Robin Barre offers courses, guides, workshops, IFS and clinical consultation, and training on validation, communication, and adolescence, for parents, therapists, educators, and organizations that serve teens.

Course

Boundaries with Integrity: Fundamentals of Boundary Setting for Human Service Providers

Learn how to recognize, set, and maintain healthy boundaries in both personal and professional life. Explore practical tools, emotional regulation techniques, and the inner dynamics that shape your boundary patterns.

Boundaries with Integrity: Fundamentals of Boundary Setting for Human Service Providers

Course

Validation: The Communication Skill That Changes Everything

This course delves into the foundational communication tool of validation. You’ll learn the nine steps of validation and leave with concrete tools for applying validation in your work and life.

Validation: The Communication Skill That Changes Everything

Guide

The Process & Practice of Validation: Extended Edition

Validation as repair: a trauma informed approach to communication.

The Process & Practice of Validation: Extended Edition

Stronger relationships, from a single home to a whole community.

So much of what breaks down in families, classrooms, and organizations is caused by the same thing: people who do not feel seen, heard, or understood. The Shiftless Wanderer exists to address that. We give people practical, trauma-informed tools for communication, connection, and repair, through courses, guides, workshops, and consultation for individuals and families, and the people and organizations that serve them.

Our roots are in the skill of validation and navigating adolescence, the most transformative crossing we all make into adulthood. The work now  extends to anyone in relationship–with another person or with themselves. When we learn to understand each other and our self, every relationship grows stronger, from a single home to a whole community.

Ideas worth carrying into your relationships

New writing offering tools and perspectives on communication, validation, Adolescence, and staying connected when it matters most.Read anytime, or have it delivered.

Explore the work 

Relationships permeate every facet of life, both professionally and personally. We have something for everyone.

Courses + Workshops
Everyone

Courses + Workshops

Self-paced courses and live workshops on validation, communication, boundaries, and Adolescence, for anyone who wants to go deeper.

IFS Consultation & Clinical Supervision
Therapists

IFS Consultation + Supervision

Group and individual consultation plus clinical supervision for therapists, and IFS-trained therapists and practitioners, with hours toward IFS certification and a community that supports your growth.

Consultation + Training for Organizations
Organizations

Consultation + Training for Organizations

Training and consultation for schools, nonprofits, and agencies, so the teams who serve teens can keep doing the work without burning out.

Speaking and Media
Events + Media

Speaking and Media

Keynotes, interviews, and podcast conversations that bring depth and fresh energy to audiences who work with young people.

Supervision & Consultation for Therapists
Therapists

Clinical Supervision + Consultation for Therapists

Clinical supervision and consultation, individually or in a group, for therapists who want to deepen their work with adolescents.

Coaching & Therapy
Individuals + Families

Coaching + Therapy

Parent coaching for families in a hard season, plus a limited psychotherapy practice for adolescents and adults working through complex trauma.

FROM THE COMMUNITY

"I entered Robin’s validation course feeling like a 'fish out of water' since I don’t work in a traditional therapeutic field. However, I walked away with far more than I bargained for. Robin’s insights into the long-term effects of lacking validation helped me identify a 'missing feeling' I’ve carried my whole life. More importantly, she articulated the validation process as a tangible skill—one I realized I already possessed but hadn’t fully harnessed. Since learning her framework, I have used these steps daily to strengthen my personal relationships and better engage with underserved communities in my professional revitalization work. The impact has been profound and entirely positive.”

Shane Farthing | Community, Nonprofit & Economic Development Leader

FROM THE COMMUNITY

"Dr. Robin Barre is the foremost expert in adolescent psychology. As a psychologist, her applied research integrates life as a therapist, a teacher, a parent, a poet, a soul-seeker. Her experiences as a scholar and educator are not isolated from the real world. Instead, Robin’s intuitive, therapeutic work lives in day-to-day moments of personal transcendence, as she provides light and meaning for her clients’ pathway through challenging times of emotional chaos and psychological duress. As an advocate for the adolescent in all of us, she understands the forgotten language of this part of life, those bridge years in between childhood and in becoming an adult, and provides guidance into how to reclaim the exiled self. Working with Dr. Barre is an initiation into remembering the many blessings of one’s heart, soul, body and mind."

Brenda Littleton | Jungian Coach, Retired Professor of Graduate Studies in Education, Marriage Family Therapist

FROM THE COMMUNITY

“I am extremely grateful to be part of a consultation group facilitated by Robin. She has skillfully created a warm, generative process and container for us to explore whatever is arising in our work - both dynamics with clients and within ourselves. She has a way of inviting our wisdom into the circle as well as sharing her own. We have developed a deep connection and trust in one another. I feel empowered and courageous knowing that this group is there for me. Each session leaves me with a sense of the importance of the work we are doing collectively in the world. It is a treasure in my life and development as an IFS practitioner.”

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